Rob and I were married 3 weeks ago. It was wonderful and insane all at the same time. I think planning a wedding with 3 kids under 5 is the main reason to wait until marriage. But the whole experience made me realize how much Rob and I depend on each other. And if we had waited, we never would have found each other. As single parents, we found it nearly impossible to date. Rob and I signed up for eharmony in 2007 and the rest is history. Between 3 kids, my family, and running this house, life is never boring.